{"id":187181,"date":"2025-09-10T16:52:13","date_gmt":"2025-09-10T14:52:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/blog\/fomo-jomo"},"modified":"2025-09-15T17:34:11","modified_gmt":"2025-09-15T15:34:11","slug":"fomo-jomo","status":"publish","type":"blog","link":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/blog\/fomo-jomo","title":{"rendered":"FOMO and JOMO: How Black Friday makes us buy (or not)\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Mention Black Friday, and you think of endless wishlists, overflowing shopping baskets, and\u2026an empty wallet. But why are we so keen on snapping up the best deals? And is that the only thing that makes us click the &#8220;buy now&#8221; button? The answer is no.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What is FOMO, and how does it influence Black Friday purchases?<\/h2>\n<p>Of course, it feels good to get an item without paying full price, but there is something else that sometimes makes us buy things we don&#8217;t really need (who needs a self-stirring mug?). That&#8217;s where <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/friendship-20\/202303\/the-realities-of-jomo-versus-fomo\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">FOMO<\/a> comes in, or &#8216;Fear of Missing Out&#8217;, a term Gen Z and young Millennials have been using all too often over the past few years (has it made it into the Oxford English Dictionary yet?).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But how does FOMO make us buy more? It&#8217;s all about our brain. When we scroll through social media and are bombarded with influencers&#8217; videos showing the coolest gadgets, clothes, or holidays, we feel like we&#8217;re missing out. Psychologists call this social proof. When you see hundreds of people buying something, your brain automatically thinks, &#8220;This must be good, I want to be part of it.&#8221; Combine that with scarcity (&#8220;only two left in stock&#8221;) and urgency (&#8220;valid until midnight&#8221;), and you have the perfect storm.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>On top of that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/brain-wise\/201802\/the-dopamine-seeking-reward-loop\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">comes a dopamine hit<\/a>. Not so much from the product itself, but from the idea that you might score something special. Research shows that our reward system is actually triggered by the anticipation of a reward, not necessarily by receiving it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo-1024x512.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-187156\" srcset=\"https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo-1024x512.webp 1024w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo-300x150.webp 300w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo-768x384.webp 768w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo-767x384.webp 767w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo-200x100.webp 200w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo-380x190.webp 380w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo-44x22.webp 44w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo-817x409.webp 817w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fomo.webp 1430w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">JOMO: the countertrend that can enhance your campaign<\/h2>\n<p>While FOMO mainly drives us not to miss out, a countertrend has emerged: Joy of Missing Out (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/friendship-20\/202303\/the-realities-of-jomo-versus-fomo\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">JOMO<\/a>). More and more consumers are consciously choosing calm and enjoying <em>not<\/em> taking part.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Where FOMO drives us through the fear of missing out, JOMO is about the pleasure people experience by deliberately leaving things behind and choosing time, space, and attention for themselves. This also activates our brain; instead of a dopamine rush from fear of missing out, we experience a sense of control and satisfaction from our choices (or from not having to make choices).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo-1024x512.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-187163\" srcset=\"https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo-1024x512.webp 1024w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo-300x150.webp 300w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo-768x384.webp 768w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo-767x384.webp 767w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo-200x100.webp 200w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo-380x190.webp 380w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo-44x22.webp 44w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo-817x409.webp 817w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/jomo.webp 1430w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What does this mean for marketers?<\/h2>\n<p>In short, where FOMO prompts one consumer to purchase, JOMO works better for another. People appreciate brands that give them choices without applying pressure; this is exactly where marketers can play smart.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>By cleverly using social proof, scarcity, and urgency, you can subtly trigger the FOMO consumer. At the same time, you can appeal to JOMO consumers by making choices clear and avoiding pressure, for example, by providing transparent information and options. This way, you create campaigns that entice customers without letting them feel manipulated.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, it&#8217;s about balance: understanding FOMO and JOMO allows you to activate consumers and build trust. This makes the &#8220;buy now&#8221; button irresistible, while customers remain satisfied with their choice and your brand!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dark-blue-color has-tone-yellow-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-83604fc9be16769239ba0d63d312ab04\"><strong>Curious how to master the balance between FOMO and JOMO this Black Friday?<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/blog\/black-friday-2025-tips\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Check out our full blog for practical tips and insights<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mobile-fw has-black-background-color has-background\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-pale-pink-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-66ea8486a19e70982a4b09407838a27f\" id=\"h-titel\">Black Friday Marketing Hub<\/h3>\n<p class=\"has-pale-pink-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a84e7c672239cd5052cadbd6c60e1c35\">No need to stress about your Black Friday campaign. We have a complete toolkit ready for you with all the help you will need. Stress less. Sell more. Start with you Black Friday campaign now!   <\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-dark-blue-color has-yellow-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/black-friday-marketing-hub\"><strong>Go to the Black Friday Marketing Hub<\/strong><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full no-bot-margin borderradius20\"><a href=\"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/black-friday-marketing-hub\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/bfcm-hub-promo.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-187214\" srcset=\"https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/bfcm-hub-promo.webp 1000w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/bfcm-hub-promo-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/bfcm-hub-promo-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/bfcm-hub-promo-768x768.webp 768w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/bfcm-hub-promo-767x767.webp 767w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/bfcm-hub-promo-190x190.webp 190w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/bfcm-hub-promo-44x44.webp 44w, https:\/\/spotler.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/bfcm-hub-promo-817x817.webp 817w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Discover how FOMO and JOMO influence our buying behavior during Black Friday and how marketers can leverage this effectively.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":104,"featured_media":187173,"template":"","cat_industry":[1462,1463,2014],"cat_topic":[1664],"class_list":["post-187181","blog","type-blog","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","cat_industry-b2c-en-gb","cat_industry-ecommerce-retail-en-gb","cat_industry-media-telecom-en-gb","cat_topic-neuromarketing-en-gb"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/blog\/187181","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/blog"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/blog"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/104"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/blog\/187181\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":188099,"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/blog\/187181\/revisions\/188099"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/187173"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=187181"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"cat_industry","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/cat_industry?post=187181"},{"taxonomy":"cat_topic","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/spotler.com\/en-gb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/cat_topic?post=187181"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}